The Purpose of Life & Arsene Wenger

Two strange topics to conflate, right? I don’t care.

I’m basically going to express what is on my mind.

The purpose of life is simple. It is to know our Lord. Once we know our Lord we can become closer to Him, and then worship Him. We can only do this in one way. We have to remember the secret which is ingrained deep down within us. The Arabic word for a human being is Insaan, which comes from the root word which means ‘to forget’. Upon entering this life we forget our purpose but our purpose is, simply, to remember. But this memory is not within the brain, it is within the soul. Let’s not waste our life. It’s temporary. We’re only hear for a short sojourn and we will die. Maybe tomorrow. Maybe later on in life. Either way, your life will fly past. If we decided to waste it we will plead with our Lord to send us back once we die. But it will be too late. Don’t allow this to happen.

Arsene Wenger needs to go, seriously man. I don’t understand why some Arsenal fans still insist he is the right guy for the job. Do they enjoy being humiliated or something? I don’t. In fact, I have gone past caring. I stopped caring at the beginning of the season when Wenger hadn’t bought anyone. Now, with no Fabregas and no Nasri, what hope did we have? If we come fourth this season (fourth..it hurts saying that) we will be lucky. But yeah man Wenger needs to go, it’s a joke. And so do all the useless players.

Nothing wrong with following football. But life should ultimately be taken seriously. Joking around and playing is fine. But, really, we should constantly deliberate on why we are here. That’s it.

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Advice to wannabe journalists

There is nothing quite like getting published for the first time. The jubilation you feel after all that effort you put into your article and then seeing your name in the byline of a national newspaper once it is published.

If somebody told me a year ago that I would now be blogging for the Independent, the Huffington Post and the New Statesman I would have laughed at them. But that was when I didn’t realize how journalism works.

Journalism is very much a cat and mouse game you see. As in, the wannabe hacks are the cat and the national newspapers/ magazines are the mouse. To get what you want, sometimes you have to chase them up and when they ignore you – or when they are too busy to respond – you continue to chase them up. And then, finally, you’ll get a response.

But like they say, you don’t get a second chance at a first impression. When you do pitch to the deputy editor, or whoever else you have managed to stalk down, it’s imperative that you come across as professional and friendly in your pitch. Scrutinize your article several times, meticulously checking for factual and grammatical errors before emailing it.

Now one year into journalism, I have interviewed a plethora of big names. Alastair Campbell being one of the bigger ones. He said in the interview that, in order to be a successful journalist, not only do you need “self confidence and inner confidence”, but you need to think you are better than the next person up.

This is why you should never be afraid to pitch above your weight. What’s the worst that could happen if the Guardian, Independent et al say ‘no’. If anything it’s a good thing. It means that your article wasn’t quite good enough and you can keep improving. Sometimes they will even tell you where you have gone wrong.

Also, do not underestimate the power of Twitter. If you catch somebody at the right moment and paste them a link to your blog, not will they read it, but they might even follow you back. Once you are in that position you can even send them direct messages. This is the ideal tool for wannabe journos.

Omar Shahid

Twitter: omar_shahid

David Starkey’s statements were shocking, but not racist

Having looked at various comments on national newspaper sites about the comments of David Starkey, I have found that I am by no means a minority in what I believe. What Starkey said was indeed shocking, but not racist. When was the last time we heard an educated professional say the kinds of things he did on national TV? It’s rare. When we are shocked by things it naturally provokes an unnatural reaction: everyone became defensive, went on the attack and called him racist.

One of the main problems with our society, and religion for that matter, is that everybody interprets things from their own narrow frame of references and perspectives and hardly ever look at the whole picture. We need to transcend our narrow perspectives and not look at things so literally.

Starkey clearly said it has nothing to do with “skin colour” but was about a particular “culture”. He’s right. The culture he was talking about here is the egotistic, materialistic and gangster culture endemic within much of our society. The behaviour and language of many white people has been adopted from a PARTICULAR black culture. This particular black culture is endemic within the rap/hip hop subculture which espouses messages of violence and materialism. Were white people the pioneers and original hip hop superstars?

Starkey also said that if we were to turn the TV off, we might think that David Lammy, MP, was white. If he wasn’t interrupted so frequently he might have further explained that what he meant (I think) was that you can’t tell the difference when an educated white or black person speaks.

When white people talk in a certain way, for example, ‘man is gona do him a ting’ why do people think to themselves: why is he trying to act black? Why? Where has that white person got that language from? Other white people? This is the point Starkey was trying to make.

Maybe he was trying to be racist. But I don’t think he was. And anyway nobody should dare accuse me of anything when my best friend (well joint best friend, I have a few best friends) is black, when I went to sixth form (a 85% white school) most of my friends were black, and I’ve got Jamaican in me. I will be the first to stand up for black people if they are being attacked or victimised, but in this case, I think people got the wrong end of the stick.

Omar Shahid

Are atheists morally superior to believers?

I just heard a believer in God say: “Let’s be honest, we’re human being right, we’re selfish creatures. I give charity because I want to go to heaven.’ But if he is doing it because he wants to ascend to the delights of the celestial world, but an atheist gives charity out of the goodness of their heart, doesn’t that make the atheist morally superior?

As I elucidated in my post ‘Do we need Religion in the 21st century‘, one of the main purposes of religion is not only to wake people up out of their somnolent slumber, but it trains a person’s ego and helps them redress their innate personality defects. One such innate personality flaw is the predisposition of selfishness. For religious believers, selfishness is sometimes accentuated because of the promise of heaven. But religion is not a one-dimensional, simplistic ideology created to appease people’s fears and desires. It’s a transformative training programme designed to elevate a human being so that they can reach their highest being. True, God does tell people to do good to attain heaven, but God knows our psychology.

If we weren’t given an incentive, human beings, generally, wouldn’t do good. Of course, this is a generalisation, but it applies to many, many people world-wide. Many atheists do good out of the goodness of their heart, and although they may not know it, they may be greatly in-tune with their spiritual side. Others, however, aren’t in tune with their spiritual side and therefore need an incentive to do good. The point is this: by constantly doing good, one eventually learns to do it without much thought, and eventually, they will do good – not because of a reward –  but because goodness will emanate from them naturally. This is the highest state of awareness a religious believer can achieve: when goodness emanates from them naturally.

This is the ultimate purpose of religion: it is suppose to wake a human being up and get them to stop performing religious rituals in a perfunctory manner, but in a way that exudes spirituality.

The Riots Have Nothing to do With The Police or The Government

Just a quick point. It seemed as if the riots first began because of the death of Mark Duggan who was shot by Police. This may be true, but since then, it has turned into a bunch of animals causing havoc. This has nothing to do with police brutality or government cuts but it is all to do with the lack of morality in our society.

98% of the youth probably haven’t encountered direct brutality from the police, nor have they been unfairly treated, yet they see the police as an evil entity. Do they not know that the police go out everyday and protect society? What would happen to the country if the police stopped working for a few days? Of course some police do abuse their powers, but that shouldn’t reflect on the whole police force.

These youth are frustrated. Some say because of a lack of jobs, deprivation and government cuts. That’s not true. The youth are frustrated because they have no sense of purpose in life.

All these thugs will soon be caught, the majority of it all is on camera. The worst thing, though, is that these idiots burning down businesses, shops and houses mean that innocent people are losing their livelihoods. If a Father or Mother loses his or her job, their only source of income, how are they suppose to feed their family?

The youth aren’t thinking about all of this. To be honest, this is the cause of the whole situation. Nobody is thinking. But we’re not trained to use our minds in this society, we’re trained to use our ego. And that is the root cause of all the problems.

 

Five ways to tell if your being lied to

Here are five ways to tell if somebody is lying to you whether it be: your employee, your parents, child, boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife.

1) Avoiding Eye Contact

This is one of the best indicators of a liar. If they weren’t lying, why are they avoiding looking at you?

2) Looking To The Right

Looking to the right stimulates the part of the brain which is associated with imagination. In other words, the liar is trying to make something up on the spot. This leads to my next point…

3) Garbled Language

When making stuff up, the liar will often stutter, mix their words and pause.

4) Touching The Mouth

Lies, of course, emerge from the mouth. So if the liar is continuously touches their mouth or keeps putting their hand over their mouth it is a good indicator that they are telling fibs!

5) Changing The Subject

This is learnt in political school. Take our Prime Minister, Bush, Obama etc, they’re all a bunch of fabricators. So what do they do? They change the topic to avoid getting into a kerfuffle.

These five signs were taken from ShortList magazine, July 14.

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